Episode 2.4
Are you curious to know more about open marriages or polyamorous relationships? In this episode of “Let’s Talk About Sex Really,” Dr. Alisa Kriegel dives into the world of non-monogamy. With her expertise as a therapist and personal research, she explores the realities of open relationships, polyamory, and consensual non-monogamy. Dr. Kriegel dispels the myths, emphasizing that true non-monogamy isn’t about affairs or casual flings—it’s about communication, consent, and honesty. She discusses the challenges (jealousy!), the tools (like “R.A.D.A.R talks”), and the work required to make these relationships thrive. Whether you’re curious or committed, this episode offers insights and resources, including recommended reads like The Ethical Slut and Polysecure. Tune in for a no-shame, real talk on what non-monogamy truly means.
***Explore Dr. Alisa’s recommendations from this episode!***
Book & Articles:
“The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
URL: https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664
“Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships” by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá**
URL: https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813
“Multi-Amory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships” (related to the Multiamory podcast/book)
URL: https://www.amazon.com/Multiamory-Essential-Tools-Modern-Relationships/dp/1637740832
“I Opened My Marriage. Maybe I Should Have Tried an Affair” (New York Magazine, The Cut) by Haley Mlotek
Additional Resources:
Multiamory Podcast (Official Website)*
URL: https://www.multiamory.com
RADAR Talk Resource (from Multiamory)
URL: https://www.multiamory.com/radar
“Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy” by Jessica Fern
URL: https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987
“From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess: A Memoir” by Alisa Kriegel
URL: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/From-Sexless-Marriage-to-Sex-Goddess/Alisa-Kriegel/9798896360063
Podcast Instagram: Let’s Talk About Sex Really**
URL: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkaboutsex_really
General Non-Monogamy Communities and Courses:
– Dr. Kriegel references online courses, groups, and therapist networks specializing in polyamory and kink. For exploration, consider:
– [Polyamory Weekly Podcast](https://polyweekly.com/)
– [Open Love Communities](https://www.openlove101.com/)
Enjoy exploring these resources, and let curiosity guide your journey!